I’m feeling a lot better today so instead of talking about my feelings, I’m going to tell y’all about another weird dream I had.

So I was getting married to an older man, he looked like he was in his 50s. I was wearing a dress I didn’t like, it actually wasn’t a dress, it was a white skirt suit, and my hair was styled in a way I didn’t like. Apparently, my soon-to-be husband had made these choices for me.

So I’m standing there in front of the mirror, hating how I look and not really wanting to marry this man, yet there was part of me that wanted to go through with it because I really wanted to get married. But in the end, I just couldn’t do it and thankfully, backed out.

What I love about this dream is something I really wanted was presented to me, but it wasn’t quite the right fit, so I didn’t accept it. And that’s not to say that what you want will always look how you think it’s going to, in fact, it often doesn’t. But if you’re settling just to have something, that’s never a good idea. Wait for what’s right for you. It’s out there. I promise.